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My Kids Are Growing Up, But My Job Definitely Isn't ‘Done'

Posted On: Aug 25, 2019   |   Posted By: Scary Mommy

My Kids Are Growing Up, But My Job Definitely Isn't ‘Done'

“Mom, what do you do all day?” my seventeen-year-old son Dylan asked me one day last spring as he passed through the kitchen, tossing his cereal bowl - crusted with day-old Frosted Flakes - into the sink.
“Why do you ask?” I inquired, impressed that his cereal bowl had actually made it to the sink instead of festering in his room, congealing into a green fuzzy mass under his bed.
“Well,” he continued, “like I know you stayed home to raise us and all, but since I'm going to college next year and Brennan will be sixteen and able to drive himself everywhere, you're kind of done being a parent.”
Kind of done? These words shocked me like a bucket of cold water on my head, making me gasp for breath. Kind of done? Oh no, no, no , I'm nowhere near done with you kids, I thought to myself, a mixture of anger, fear and doubt bubbling up through my body.
When my kids were small, I promised myself that I would be the perfect mom. The Carol Brady of the new millennium. I would read to them every night and make them...

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